Some experiences in this world are universal, and that couldn’t be more true than when talking about small towns. So many of us have shared experiences just by virtue of living in an area with a low population. But that said, each state does have its own unique culture built around the small towns. Living in Virginia comes with a lot of its own fun quirks and traditions, and these are 19 things that we think apply most specifically to growing up in small-town Virginia.
1. You still say hello to everyone you pass on the street.
It's just what we do. Living in Virginia, you say hi to your neighbors, wave at people as you drive down the road, and greet everyone with a smile and a friendly "hello." Try that in some cities and you're more likely to get labeled a stalker than get a "hello" in return.
2. There's a good chance at least one of your best friends is also your cousin.
Be it a first cousin, second cousin, or second cousin twice removed, it's not unlikely your family tree has the same roots. This only gets weird when you start dating.
3. You can always spot when there's someone new in town.
"I don't recognize that car in the Johnson's driveway. They must have family visiting."
4. At least one of your teachers also taught your mother or father.
That says a lot for the kind caring teachers in Virginia that they had to put up with not only your shenanigans but your parents as well.
5. "Driving around" was a perfectly acceptable form of entertainment in high school.
And you knew every parking lot in town.
6. You knew your postman by name.
7. Church socials, potlucks, and picnics were a big deal.
And you always knew whose mother made the best mac n' cheese.
8. The local high school or volunteer fire department made Brunswick stew as a fundraiser every fall.
The trick was making sure you bought enough to keep in the freezer to enjoy all winter long.
9. Going to the mall was a major outing.
10. You know exactly what a pig pickin' is.
11. Living in a small town was like being under 24-hour surveillance. You couldn't get away with ANYTHING.
Small towns have big eyes - and even bigger mouths when it comes to letting your mother know what you've been up to.
12. A traffic jam was when you were 5 cars behind at a stoplight (assuming you had a stoplight, that is.)
13. You could, and did, ride your bike everywhere.
14. The Junior League, Women's Auxiliary, or ladies' church group always put out a cookbook - and these are still some of your favorite recipes.
15. You knew all of the best creeks, rivers, and swimming holes.
16. You knew how to make your own fun.
A party in a field with this guy? Absolutely.
17. You've been in the town Christmas Parade at least once.
18. A trip to the grocery store took 5 times as long as it should because you just couldn't stop running into people you know.
19. You couldn't wait to leave, but now you know...there's just no place like home.
There are so many interesting experiences that are unique to growing up in one of the many small towns in Virginia. Many of these things may not seem so special at first glance, but we think you’ll surely miss them if you should leave. If you grew up in small-town Virginia, then there’s no doubt that you could probably add a few more items to this list.
Is there anything special about living in Virginia that you think we left off the list? What was life in Virginia like for you growing up? Let us know! If you love small-town Virginia like us, you may want to check out our Facebook page.
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